This web site is a continuation of that process and hopefully will help the children and their parents through the difficult custody litigation process. We will feature articles, blogs, bibliographies of books and articles and other resources for all family members to read.

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Should Children Read Books Dealing with Separation and Divorce?

When a couple decides separate or divorce, they must deal with many difficult issues. They usually are not familiar with the legal system and nor the many steps involved in the very emotional process. Children, too, are not familiar with such terms as separation,divorce, judge, court, custody, and visitation. I believe one of the ways […]

children learn what they live dorothy law nolte (1954)

Children Learn What They Live

  • If children live with criticism they learn to condemn.
  • Children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
  • If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
  • If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
  • If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
  • If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
  • If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
  • If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
  • If children live with acceptance, they learn to like themselves.
  • If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
  • If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
  • If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
  • If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
  • If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
  • If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
  • If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

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Joseph P. Testa ,JSC ( Ret)